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Domestic violence and emotional abuse are behaviors
used by one person in a relationship to control the other. Partners may be married
or not married; heterosexual, gay, or lesbian; living together, separated or dating.
Examples of abuse include:
name-calling or putdowns
keeping a partner from contacting their family or friends
withholding money
stopping a partner from getting or keeping a job
actual or threatened physical harm
sexual assault
stalking
intimidation
Violence
can be criminal and includes physical assault (hitting, pushing, shoving, etc.),
sexual abuse (unwanted or forced sexual activity), and stalking. Although emotional,
psychological and financial abuses are not criminal behaviors, they are forms of
abuse and can lead to criminal violence.
The violence takes many forms and can happen all the
time or once in a while. An important step to help yourself or someone you know
in preventing or stopping violence is recognizing the warning signs listed on the
"Violence Wheel." ANYONE CAN
BE A VICTIM!
Victims can be of any age, sex, race, culture, religion, education,
employment or marital status. Although both men and women can be abused, most victims
are women. Children in homes where there is domestic violence are more likely to
be abused and/or neglected. Most children in these homes know about the violence.
Even if a child is not physically harmed, they may have emotional and behavior
If you
are being abused, REMEMBER
1.
You are not alone
2.
It is not your fault
3.
Help is available
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